Ever wonder what goes through a girl's head? I mean we have that whole preconception about guys and how their minds just work on three channels only, or four, depending on their intellectual level (hahaha), but then, what about girls?

I'm a girl and I feel a bit ashamed because I honestly don't know what goes through a girl's head. Ignore the earlier comment about guy's minds only operating on three channels, that was lame and I'm not out to attack our boys. I'm trying to figure out our girls.

The other day I was out with my girls getting ice cream when two other girls came to buy and they kept looking over at us and giggling. Now I didn't really pay much attention to them, but it really bothered one of my girls to the point that she said she would rather go elsewhere.

Now this is not the first time that something similar to that has happened. There have been numerous occasions that I have witnessed girls doing that. And I really don't get it. What is it all for? Is it because there is something wrong? Is it because something is right? Or is a person that awe-inspiring that you can't approach them and tell them what you thinking of them, so you'd rather watch them from a distance and talk and giggle about them?

You know there are a lot of sayings that are cliches that I could say when it comes to this, but I won't.

What I'd rather say is that it angers me that girls act like this. If you like something I'm wearing, tell me. If you hate something about me, tell me as well or just keep it to yourself. Why do we have to hate on each other? It doesn't make any sense to me.

We are already a minority of sorts, constantly searching for equality and the approval of men, so why do we hate on each other? I would expect us to stand united as one, at all times instead of talking about each other behind our backs?

I won't deny it, I know I've also done that at some point in my life, but now I know it's really immature and quite simply put; POINTLESS. That's what it is...

We girls need to stop with the hate! All this hate won't benefit any of us, it's just going to make us grow into bitter old women that will have nothing better to do than gossip and belittle our fellow ladies. It's time for change, as for me and my girls, we are pushing that SWAGG - Something We Ambitious Girls Got!